I get asked a lot how I write books around a full-time job and two kids. There’s one habit underneath all of it, and it is not a morning routine. I don’t have mornings. It’s this.
I write at the same time every day, not for the same length
Mine is late at night, after both kids are asleep and the house finally goes quiet. Some nights that’s ninety minutes. Some nights it’s twelve. The time is fixed; the output isn’t. Fixing the when removed the daily negotiation of whether today is a writing day.
I stopped waiting for a real writing session
For years I thought real writing needed an open evening and a clear head. I don’t get those. I get fifteen minutes on a baseball sideline and forty-five minutes after 9pm. Treating those as real writing sessions, instead of consolation prizes, is what actually moved the manuscript.
I end every session mid-sentence, on purpose
Stopping at the end of a scene means starting the next session cold. Stopping mid-sentence means the next ten minutes are just finishing a thought I already started, which is a much easier door to walk back through at 10pm with no energy left.
The habit is boring, and that is the point
No elaborate ritual, no special setup. Same time, same unglamorous fifteen-to-ninety minutes, most days. Boring is sustainable. Sustainable is what gets a book finished around a full-time job and two kids.
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